Resistance versus Surrender….
Is Surrender always whole-hearted, 100% complete Surrender ??
Should a subject fully surrender 100% after only a few sessions of hypnosis ??
Is there such a thing as “full surrender”…?
My response is – Surrendering to a hypnodomme is a similar process to trust…. In fact- Surrender = trust + a willingness to let go + a willingness to risk taking a step into the unknown.
Step by step….. a day at a time.
If you find yourself resisting- get curious about that resistance. Write about it- talk about it with others who also feel that same push/pull….
Giving up control- even just little pieces of your own world – can be scary. If a hypnodomme asks you to review a mp3 recording & you “don’t feel like it”… get curious about how do you feel when She asks you to do something…
If She has been kind to you… do you respond with the same response you would to kindness in the vanilla world?? If not- why not?
Gather information… about Her, about the way She works, about the way She interacts… is She trustworthy…
Gather information about yourself…. if you have been searching for a hypnodomme who understands you, who can interrogate your mind leaving you with no memory of the interrogation…. how would you/do you react ??
My personal philosophy is that I value subjects saying how they feel & what they think/respond to My hypnosis and dominance.
Erotic Hypnosis often brings up strong feelings… you’re not alone in struggling with the feelings you feel. Explore those feelings with someone you trust, or in a community such as inraptured.net
I started out with three great sessions with Lady Surrender, the last two where I tried to fully embrace the idea of becoming her willing slave. I loved the experiences including becoming her slave. As time passed though I found this struggle with myself to not serve, even though I always felt like I wanted to submit. This unfortunately left me in a strange state where I ended up not doing as the Lady bid, which I did not find pleasant, but something in me failed to conform. This continues to occur back and forth in my mind, and it unfortunately leaves me in a confused place as it seems as though my own mind wants to pull in two different directions. This also leaves me as not being a very good slave, since a slave’s servitude should be absolute, and this underlying resistance refuses to let go. I honestly don’t know what to do, and leaves me unable to fully surrender the way I should for Lady Surrender.
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